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Struggle in achieving dreams.

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Dreams come easily, don’t they?
But, boss, it takes a lot of effort, sacrifices, hard work, and devotion to make a goal a reality.
Some people are willing to devote 5-6 years to their careers, but others have a limited amount of time to find work.
Some people suffer their entire lives just to feed their families, while others have comforts and jobs become accessible to them.

Whether high caste, lower caste, or middle caste ambitions are shared by everybody, yet expectations vary.
Now, this is the story of two best friends who have been best friends for ten years and have a deep link.
Both Anshika and Krati are ambitious students.
They have opted to pursue a CA degree in the same city, Pune.
Krati asked her parents if she may go to Pune for the best CA coaching, and her closest friend is also going.
She requested her mother, “Mom, can I please travel to Pune, I want to be a CA and there is no top coaching available in our city, you know na mom?”

Mother, who was concerned, responded to Kratika.
I know you want to be a CA, but we can’t let you go just yet, Pune.
Pune is not near to Kolkata, yet Anshika’s parents were willing to send her there.
Anshika contacted Kratika.
anshika – hello, sweetie!!
What’s up?
What have you decided?
Are you travelling to Pune with me?
kratika responded quietly. – Anshika, my parents refused my wish to go to Pune.
anshika – don’t be stressed, relax. After all, parents are not unreasonable in their viewpoint.
Don’t worry, Kratika, you’ll become a CA.
Kratika- All right, I’ll undertake online coaching.
The call was terminated.

Anshika moved to Pune full of hope, passion, and determination.
She got a hostel and a roommate.
She was overly enthusiastic at first, waking up early by herself, eating breakfast, and then getting ready for coaching.
She returns to the hostel exhausted from coaching.
She then waits for dinner.
She used to solve home assignments assigned during coaching after supper.
It became a daily habit for her.
However, after a few months, she became dissatisfied and even planned to give up!
It is not simple to manage things on your own in a new place!
She occasionally skips meals due to test stress.
Even when her parents called her, she would only converse for 5-10 minutes.
She was overtired.

Isn’t it simple to fantasise?
When it comes to reality, however, it requires a lot of hard effort and adaptations; many times, sleep schedules are disrupted, feelings of despair, anxiety attacks, and even feeling looser are experienced.
Yes, it is difficult to manage everything on your own.
However, if one has lofty aspirations, one must make significant sacrifices.
Yes, health comes first and should not be overlooked, but time must be managed for everything else.
and once we decide to finish, we must finish it in order to see the lovely results that will be waiting for us the prefix when applied to name makes all pains and struggles feel worthwhile

Achievements produce problems, difficulties, insecurities, and so on.
One will, in any case, go through them.
Demotivation is natural. Everything that happens between the starting point and the finish line is normal until it destroys you from the inside out.
Definitely at the start, we wonder why we are doing all of this, coming to a new city with dreams, but if we question ourselves why we started this journey, we will find a cause to conclude it properly.
There can be moments when we are pessimistic, which may lower our morale. It is best to talk to someone who can get you back on course.
And it’s preferable than having self-doubt and feeling hopeless.

if it appears to be outside of your purview, do what makes you happy; after all, life is all about being happy in whatever you do.

However, do not consider quitting up until it has completely destroyed your serenity and happiness.
Life is incredibly valuable, and we must cherish it.

Hard work pays off

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We’ve all heard and witnessed throughout our lives that hard work never goes to waste. This is certainly true when we put our all into anything. It will one day bear fruit for us. But it’s not like we have to wait for it; we’ll receive it eventually, whether it’s weeks, months, or years.
So here is the story of two twins residing in Gwalior, Madhya Pradesh.
Amrita and Dhara were both bright students in the tenth grade.
Their parents’ names are Kamal and Shreya, and they both work in separate corporate businesses.
Amrita and Dhara both aspire to be like their parents.
As a result, they used to work really hard in order to perform well in tests.

Amrita had a goal of becoming Engineer, thus she focused her time more on academics and less on everything else, even skipping meals on occasion.
And when she saw Amrita, she decided to make a decision for herself; she was like having fun while studying. She wanted to be a doctor, but rather than seeing it as a burden, she began to love her classes so she could do well in the 10th grade.
Boards exam schedule has arrived.
Amrita was a bit nervous since she wanted to be at the top of the class, but owing to her worry, she didn’t score as predicted, but 92 percent, and Dhara was confident, but she only received 85 percent, a satisfactory score.
Their parents began to compare the twins to one another.

Comparing one other’s enterprises to comparing their own children’s grades caused their children to feel lonely and upset.
Despite the fact that both children have distinct potential, their grades have become a method for predicting their future.
Despite the fact that both scored highly, due to their dissatisfied parents, the children began to feel concerned and worried about reaching the top like their parents.
It is now time for the parent-teacher conference.
The teacher inquired as to why your parents appeared to be sad.
They discussed everything that happened last night.
The teacher then told the parents, “Look at your kids, are they healthy?”
Don’t they have good minds?

Aren’t they talented in other areas?
Ask yourself if you’ve always been on top.
If so, does it always make you happy?
Why don’t you let children live their lives?
It is not the marks that harm them; it is your expectations that place a load on your children.
This weight will undoubtedly crush their happiness.
And, as a mother, I know that no parent wants to see their children miserable.

It’s vital to do well in examinations, but it’s even more crucial to enjoy them without feeling rushed.
After all, a one-day office job may make them like you guys, and it is pointless to study this way if it merely causes you stress rather than helping you to grow as a person.

School and college are not only about studying; they are also about gaining new skills and having fun.
Nowadays, education is essentially a comparison tool that determines kids’ futures.
Without a question, studying is beneficial, yet failing to receive high grades is OK, as everyone is unique in their own manner.

It is vital to learn from previous experiences and improve in the future.
Hard work will pay off where you invest your efforts, which will undoubtedly require your attention.
If not a doctor, then an engineer, if not an engineer, then a CA, if not a CA, then a manager, if not a manager, then a cricket player, and so on. Everyone is unique; one may excel at football while another excels at music and requires just admiration, not comparison.

And certainly, enjoying life should be the major objective of everyone. It is preferable to congratulate your children or anybody else who received less marks or anything else, rather than encouraging them to feel terrible and finally do inappropriate action like suicide.
value it rather than moaning about things understand rather than demotivating

Failure doesn’t exist.

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Failure is a seven-letter term that is generally recalled when success slips through our fingers, when we fall down, when we lose hope, when desirable things do not happen to us, and for a variety of other reasons. does it not?
Let us now go on to the narrative, which begins with a family living in a small town in a villa beside a lovely river.
Every time Avinash and his grandpa Dheeraj played along the river.
Avinash enjoyed football.
Pratik, his father, was a businessman.
As a result, Pratik was unable to devote time to his son.
Prakrati, Avinash’s mother, used to take care of the house and aid with business accounting because she was a CA.

As a result, she tried but couldn’t devote enough time to her kid.
Avinash is in class 3 and is really interested in sports, thus he was sent to tutions.
After a few days of not scoring well, his classmates began to harass him.
Unlike others, he had a buddy named Rohan who used to hang out with him, and as youngsters, they used to forget about the bullies and start their days fresh. returning home without complaint

The bullies abruptly stopped abusing Avinash, but Avinash had no idea what was in store for him over the next few days, which would drastically transform his life.
He is presently in the seventh grade.
He was only receiving passing grades, and watching his closest buddy score so well made him wonder, “Will I ever be able to be like Rohan?”
Will I ever be able to make my parents proud?
Is it worth my time to study at such a prestigious institution?
and so forth

He used to make comparisons to his topper friend Rohan.
His granddad used to inspire him, but now and then he feels the same way.
He now refers to himself as a failure because he was unable to make the football team while only receiving passing grades.
Her mother questioned granddad about why he was always sad.
Everything about Avinash was revealed by granddad.
They’ve both agreed to help Avinash now.

As anticipated, grandfather requested Avinash to plant a tree of his choice. Avinash used to love nature, so he became delighted and bought a plant.
He has completed all planter labour and, as instructed by granddad, watered the plants regularly.


Sheep devoured the plant after one week.
He then suggested that a fresh one be planted.
and the same thing occurred.
Grandpa added for the third time, “Now listen to me attentively.”
Plant the tree with all safety precautions in place, as well as this tree, which will not be eaten away.

Then the tree began to grow.
He is presently in the eighth grade.
Grandpa and his mother approached him and said, “Look, son, there is no such thing as failure.”
We take what we can from it.
The only thing that is important is that you never give up trying new methods but with consistency because everything has its own manner of being done, such as in your studies, prepare something that will work for you.

Take a look at the tree; can it grow easily without sufficient hydration and sunlight?
Will it grow in cold weather if it’s supposed to grow in hot weather?
Every individual on this planet is as unique as these trees, and they are all supposed to be in a wonderful place.
Why should we underestimate ourselves only because we did not achieve our goals?


Learn from nature; if a mango tree believes that its worth is not there during the winter season, the tree will not produce nice mangoes and would eventually die. You are intended for something huge, son, if not studies, then sports.
Do not underestimate yourself.

People around you may not appreciate you, but you do not have to listen to their statements.
They may not recognize your worth and may even discourage you; do not allow them to govern your life.
Simply do what seems right to you. Everything will undoubtedly come into place.

Parents – Gift From God

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A man was walking through the streets when he saw two boys playing football. One of the boys was missing a leg, and the other was encouraging his friend to play. The man approached the boys and asked them their names first.
What is your name, my dear boys?
Uncle, my name is Rishi, said the first person without a leg.
My name is Karan, the second boy said.
Then he questioned if you were all brothers.
Boys responded “no.”
The man is now shocked.

He has never seen young children grasp the human condition better than adults.
Typically, people act in accordance with their age, but these young folks were modelling excellent values for the man.
Then he remembered his past.
He now has tears in his eyes as he recalls when his father lost his legs due to paralysis.
Without even considering who he was inflicting this excruciating anguish on, he sent him to an old age facility.

His father begged him to keep him out of the care home.
Man answered, “I don’t care.”
I don’t need you anymore.
Just give my family and I some space.
And his father was totally broken that day inside.
He was simply lifeless.

Now that he remembered the lesson, he quickly went to the nursing home to pick up his father and returned home. He was surrounded by guilt and regret because those two boys had demonstrated an important lesson in life that he was unable to see.

After that, he apologised to his father.
I’ve done a lot of wrong to you, so please punish me but also forgive me. I know I’m not the best son, but please give me one more chance.

As dad listened to this, he remembered the day when the boy had told him, “I don’t need you.” He had been upset, but being a good father, he put everything aside and had pardoned the boy, returning to his family and house in a joyful mood.

How long does it take to expel those whom the world, including us, refers to as parents.
As we lose touch with our culture, we turn into inhumans with no regard for others and no manners.
It seems cool to put morality and ethics aside to mingle with strangers, doesn’t it?
In actuality, leaving your parents and spending time with people who might abandon you at any time is foolish.

Parents are divine blessings that we all need to protect and appreciate for being in our lives forever.
Parents are the only people who will pardon us even for the worst offence.
They only ask for love and care instead of luxuries and things.
Aren’t we able to spend time with them and show them how much we care about them?
Is it simpler to get a job and live a life of luxury than to live with parents?

It’s pointless to live a heartless life if we can’t be with our parents.
Happiness and blessings cannot be purchased with money.
And sure, it would be wrong for us to kick our parents out of our homes and lives; after all, they gave us the gift of the life we have today.

The aforementioned tale teaches us that our parents are our first supporters, and we should go to all lengths to keep them content and healthy.

Heart vs brain (part -2)

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Have you ever experienced a mental block or difficulty making decisions?
Yes, without a doubt, we have all encountered this situation in our lives. At the same time, we have also experienced heartbreak when things don’t turn out the way we had hoped.

Sometimes the erroneous thoughts we think—thoughts that aren’t done on purpose—cause collateral damage to both organs. However, we are often duped by circumstances, which causes our brain to cease giving us the proper cues and makes us feel worse.

Things deteriorate when we are depressed since it prevents our brain from thinking clearly while also making our hearts heavy.
We never want this to happen to us, but it does. Life teaches us what is right and wrong for us gradually.

Without the brain and heart, the body is completely incomplete. However, if one is damaged, will the other be able to function normally? If we somehow ruin our own lives, others will suffer as a result.

Here is the story of a young boy who use to play football with his friends.
Play with your heart, not your brain, his mother used to tell him. Enjoy your time, son, and come back soon to finish your schoolwork.
Her son used to meticulously follow all directions when playing football.
He lost the game one day. He was initially depressed, but somehow he recalls what his mother told him.
then make an effort to move on and begin playing without thinking about winning.

When he returned to finish his assignment and related his incident, his mother praised him and said, “Good beta, these little lessons won’t let you get wounded yourself.”
When he was getting ready for school the following morning, her mother advised him to behave well toward everyone, even if they were unable to do so. She also advised him to never fight with anyone and to always pay attention to his teacher.
Taking his mother’s advice, he attended school.

Everything was going great, but a week later, he was under stress because his friend had been picking on him for being truthful and completing all of his schoolwork.
He mentioned everything after returning to his house.
After carefully listening to him, his mother remarked, “Beta. It’s OK for someone to bully you or not appreciate you. spend time with that friend and try to make him feel at ease in your presence. This will help him feel safer and better, which might help him break his habit of bullying others.”


His brain began to think correctly as a result of her mother pouring positive ideas into his head.
Even the brain requires thoughts and messages to function, and if they are used properly, they can aid in personal growth. and the opposite

Heart and intellect are at battle in this situation. If the wrong message is being fed to your brain, it won’t work properly. As I previously stated, when we are teenagers, we begin to listen maturely to our brains. If our brains are not thinking properly, it will certainly cause issues, which our hearts will undoubtedly sense immediately.
In times of despair or sadness, listening to one’s heart will unquestionably not help one to recover.
If the child had paid attention to his heart, he would have attempted to distance himself from his friend when he was bullied since the heart is filled with feelings that either cause us to allow a situation go worse or make it better.

Heart vs brain (part-1)

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Sometimes it seems mysterious how humans react.
whether it is acquired through heredity or through environment.
Despite the fact that we are all unique, we can yet find certain things in common.


Sometimes thoughts are in agreement, sometimes they are not
We come across individuals with the same attitude, which can either lead to strong bonds or the beginning of gaps.

One’s intention of reacting may come from within or it may be a mirror of what others are thinking.

But it varies from person to person.
We frequently lack awareness of revenge in our early years. No matter how many fights or punishments we received, we always used to smile back. Innocence was the best outfit we ever wore.
That is how lovely childhood is.
We don’t respond based on how other people behave.


We respond based on our understanding.
As we mature and our brains begin to develop, we cease listening to our hearts as we grow older and begin acting in accordance with our brains.

The more negative people we encounter, the more likely we are to imitate their nonsensical traits, which at the time look cool but were actually just the beginning of things getting worse.

Loneliness causes people to cease thinking in a certain path, even if they don’t get that companionship.
Since no one is available to provide guidance, they simply do what feels right to them.

Thus, people act without knowing why, merely to keep themselves safe.
Although it undoubtedly leads them down a route that is not intended for them, it may be appropriate in some circumstances.

And this loneliness causes sadness, which destroys a person from the inside out and makes them want to take their own lives. Given that everyone is self-centered, nobody needs them, and even if they pass away, no one would be harmed, their only moral response seems to be to sacrifice their own lives.

And as soon as they come into contact with poisonous situations or individuals, they either allow their hearts to be misled into making emotional reactions or they just let their minds go crazy.
Who desires any harmful environment?


The brain will try to prevent the individual from dying in that toxicity if given the chance, while the heart will attempt to cope with the circumstance if given the chance.
Both of them need to have an opportunity, depending on the circumstances, to allow for peace, primarily within, without endangering the peace of anyone.

Happy father’s day daddy, I miss you ❤️

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The word father is a six-letter word with a profound meaning.
A person who has been habituated to making sacrifices since the day he realises he has duties that force him to do things he would never have done otherwise.
For him, no circumstance is ever a win-win.
Everyone around him believes that he must be strong, that he does not require relaxation, and that he must work 24 hours a day, seven days a week.

Getting up early, going to work, working hard for his family, and forgetting that he needs a break.
Being a father is not simple; you must make time for your children, which can be challenging at times.
He has to travel work over night for his family, therefore he forgets to sleep.
He is unable to give time to his family, for whom he is working so hard, on this adventure.
It’s never easy to stay patient in the face of adversity.

Even if his supervisor is furious with him, he never tells his children about it.
When he returns home from work, he hides his sorrow, and his tired countenance changes when he sees his children.

Situations can be difficult at times, and he may get paid less than he works.
He gets nothing a lot of the time.
He, too, feels helpless, but his obligations drive him to do all it takes to keep his family safe.
He is a man, after all, and he must work.

And in an environment where everything is unpredictable,
When we lose, we realise everything, and it hurts a lot.


I was only ten years old
When i got to know you died.
I didn’t fully know what it meant.
I felt numb, and i haven’tcried.

I didn’t know how big a hole
your passing would leave.
I didn’t understand how much loneliness
I was about to receive.

As the years have gone by,
I’ve forgotten a few things,
Like the sound of your voice,
And how your laughter used to ring.

I can’t remember exactly what
It was like when you held me,
But I do remember it left me with
A feeling of warmth and security.

My first birthday spent without you
Was hardest after you where gone.
That first Christmas just wasn’t the same,
And it remains so as the years go on.

There have been thousands of times
When I’ve wished you were still here,
To celebrate all of my joys,
And help me calm my fear.

I’ve spent more of my life without you
Than with you, I’m sad to say.
But I want you to know I still love you,
And I think about you every day.

I’ll keep his memory alive,
and honor all he believed,
And just feel so very grateful
For all his love that I received.

A bittersweet story of two friends (part-3)

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Fights don’t just shatter bonds; they also erode trust, which is built on expectations, allowing the other person to form a negative impression of you.
What if there is a greater level of understanding, and acceptance takes the place of expectations?
Isn’t it preferable to save the bond than to kill it?

Kartik is the name of the quiet friend, and Pranali is the name of the extrovert one.
There was a moment in their lives when Pranali was all about attempting to rekindle their relationship, while Kartik was all about holding on to his ego and attitude, oblivious to the fact that everyone needs a buddy. It is the person’s ignorance if he believes he does not require one.

She was doing her hardest to make an effort, trying to make conversation through every means possible, while swimming in the purest river of friendship. Kartik, on the other hand, remained in the same lane, oblivious to everything. This was hurting her, and she was already carrying the scars of her past.

She used to lose control and began expressing her displeasure to him. After that, after getting the regret, pain kills herself from within.
After going through a lot, she attempted one more time to save Bond. All apologies and explanations are being asked to make amends. Finally, he agreed, but the suffering she experienced drove her to her lowest point…when she needed him, he was nowhere to be found, instead choosing to ignore her.

It’s difficult to close the gap once it’s formed. But she was brave enough to ignore her self-respect and strive to be with him.
After a year, she realised he was merely pretending to be there. He was preoccupied with his life. It’s amazing how simple it is to mess with other people’s emotions.


Friendship is a crucial part of life since it allows you to share everything and make you feel better. Where you blindly believe and accept the individual for who they are…and when expectations arise, the relationship weakens, and when ego arises, the bond dies.
She made the decision to end it permanently because it isn’t going to assist anyone and is only going to waste each other’s time.

It is stated that once you have lost someone, you will subsequently realise what you have truly lost.
If you don’t understand the worth now, you won’t be able to help yourself in the future.
It would be better if we tried to learn it before the friendship ended.
If you know that your friend is the best gift from God to you, ego has no place in your life. It’s challenging enough to find the proper person, but maintaining the bond is even more difficult.

Many people struggle to maintain friendships because they are too preoccupied with their egos to put out any effort and instead damage the sentiments of others.
Isn’t it preferable to maintain acceptance?
Accept the person for who they are and don’t demand anything in return.
Friendship does not bind people; instead, it allows them to be themselves.

It allows a person to progress in life and remain happy without harbouring grudges against others. to improve oneself as a person

A bittersweet story of two friends (part-2)

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You’re probably wondering what happened to the pals in the story next…
Well, the narrative goes on like this: they used to gather in school and have fun there…sometimes they got caught for their mischief, and occasionally they skipped classes.


They shared many experiences in school…and even after returning home on special occasions, they used to spend time together…roaming the streets…sharing food…
Many times, while conversing or contacting, they run across some disagreements…and then they have to make amends…


Friendship entails everything from minor squabbles to major brawls in which they either come to know each other and realise the true significance of the relationship or they distance themselves from it.
The moment has come to say goodbyes…

One was too bashful and introverted to capture the moment with the friend while disregarding all others in farewell, while the other was aware of this and simply let the moment be captured for the delight of the friend…


Following that, Destiny led them in the same direction. However, one afterwards changed his mind and chose a different path.
And this has hurt the friend who wanted to spend more time with her.
However, life is all about predetermined fate, and you can’t change what has to happen.


Maturity is defined as the ability to comprehend a situation and move with the flow. Rather than holding on to my rage, I’m going to try to understand why this is happening to me and everyone else.

Distance does not separate friends; rather, it strengthens their friendship if they have a good understanding.
But life is full of unknowns, and we never know what others may think of us.
The shy one began to ignore the other friend, and their friendship began to deteriorate.

Due of a lack of comprehension.
Even though the other was aware of this, they continued to try to keep the bond intact. However, once a misunderstanding occurs, and a rift between friends develops, it becomes difficult to restore the friendship.

A bittersweet story of two friends. (Part-1)

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Friendship, two individuals who have many similarities, a difficult but pleasant relationship in which they become a part of each other’s everyday lives, and finally family.


So the tale goes, in a tiny village, there lived two buddies who were both insane and silent, maybe because they didn’t know how to break out of their introvert zone.


Seriously, how beautiful friendship can be if you surround yourself with the proper people.
You get to discover new stuff.

At the same time, you get into some nice difficulty.😂😂 Your companion may occasionally allow you to attend punishment alone, relishing watching you suffer and laughing with others.🤭🤭😂😂

Sometimes they plot something challenging, such as scaling walls, eating each other’s tiffin before lunch, or avoiding telling the buddy that you ate his/her food😂😂.

Or simply wandering around throughout class😁😁.
This charming yet twisted friendship used to include everything.✌️😊

So these two had a typical friendship at first.
They used to converse and assist one another.
Sometimes they quarrel, and other times they play games.
They used to preserve their friendship in this manner.


Friendship is about commitment and acts, not promises.
You must make efforts to allow friendship to grow deeper and deeper while also maintaining a high degree of understanding in order to have a wonderful connection for years and years.

Sometimes you have to be the listener, and other times you have to deal with issues by providing appropriate advice.
As already said. A friend in distress is a true friend.


What kind of friend is it if it doesn’t listen to you or avoids you for no apparent reason?
The only thing that holds their friendship together is effective communication.
They become accustomed to being with each other.