Life of a boy – not all boys are same ( 4- final part )

Isn’t every boy the same?
Living in the twenty-first century, where there is so much competition and being a part of it, there are few guys who copy the evil.
As a result, society declares that all boys are alike.

How illogical our society’s thinking is, which makes it even better to be a nasty person.

It is not true that a doctor’s son should become a doctor.
However, many of our parents’ ambitions become obligations on the shoulders of our boys. In any case, boys must make their parents proud.
Even if they had to go through hell for that reason, they will do so without yelling.
Even worse, boys are forced to participate in such activities, which is unethical.
Not only as a result of poor parenting, but also as a result of the competition to be wealthy, satisfy all demands, and enjoy life to the point where they are driven to perform unlawful actions.

They are being put under so much pressure that they have become disoriented and have lost their way.
We are all born with a good mind, which allows us to achieve more success.
The environment in which we live, however, shapes our lives.
Then who is in charge of maintaining a healthy environment?
Why are there more crimes, more suicides, and more depression?
Why does a young guy have to bear the brunt of the pain?
When you’re in the mood to cry, why not do it?

It’s so simple to say all boys are same But no one wanna take obligation to let them be on track Let the environment be so immaculate for them to know what’s right and what’s wrong There is no ought to tune in to them? No one to inquire them why are you late? Where were you? You need a few help? You no got to select bad You must discharge your tears. Let your disappointments be your learning. No ought to put any burden on you You can share your feelings.

We should not make it confounded.
The main change required is to prepare our mind.
Not all men are same.
Presently let awful men on target.
To make a climate agreeable for them.
To allow slip-ups to transform into illustrations.
To show them regard ladies.
To allow them to feel blissful and furthermore cry when they need.

After all they are humans not robots.
Let us deal with them like we need them to treat with us. How about we end the idea of men are solid and fabricate idea of allowed they to take rest.

Life of a boy- The well-wisher (Part – 3)

So here we are in the third chapter of a boy’s life- Boys are best friends for both boys and girls.
They try to understand everything and keep all secrets safe with them.
They know how to understand other people’s emotions and feelings without revealing anything. Yes, girls do understand, but it’s also true that boys don’t judge, so they get your point and try to figure it out.

We frequently underestimate them.
For example, since you’re not a girl, you will not understand a girl’s feelings, pains, or the way we used to live our lives.
Maybe we’re right, but that doesn’t mean boys can’t try to understand.
Give them a chance at least.
Always complaining, is it right?
Aren’t they humans?

Show them that they are valuable and that they deserve respect and fair treatment. Although some people are egoistic, this is not the case for everyone. Many people understand the pain and are very down to earth. They don’t cry but they feel the pain. They don’t speak about their problems, but they too go through the darkest of days. They, too, fail at times to assist their parents, to be with their children, to be the best husband, to be the best father, to be the best in their office, and so on.

Boys, too, get psychologically ill and suffer, and we must be there for them.
As humans, we must encourage one another and share our sorrows and joys.
As long as we are on this world, we should strive to improve our lives and be happy and healthy.
We need to be there for one other in good times and bad.

Let’s get them back, even if they make mistakes or get on the wrong tracks. So, what’s the big deal? Instead of disregarding them, it is our obligation to act appropriately.
Don’t go with him because he used to drink a lot.
He’s like this, and he’s like that. He used to yell a lot, and he used to say vile things.
Isn’t it then our job to assist them in getting back on track?
Why not lend a hand?
This is exactly what today’s generation requires.
Understand each other and lend a hand to one another.

You’re just a boy. Maybe even a young man. We get it. But before you know it, you’ll be on the verge of becoming something even greater! You’re going to be a man. And hopefully a gentleman!

By Kristen Blake

Try not to become a man of success, but rather try to become a man of value.”

Albert Einstein

If you live long enough, you’ll make mistakes. But if you learn from them, you’ll be a better person. It’s how you handle adversity, not how it affects you. The main thing is never quit, never quit, never quit.”

President William Jefferson Clinton

Life of a boy- judgemental society (part – 2)

As I mentioned in the first section of life of a boy, this is the continuation of how the society in which we live influences our thinking.

We used to accept the changes they imposed on us, the beliefs and perceptions they instilled in us.
Boys are tougher, and they don't cry.
Then they're gods, not humans, aren't they?

Let’s face it, we’re all human. We must treat one another on the basis of humanity, not gender.
And guess what, even boys who believe they are strong do not need to cry. Guys, you have emotions and a heart. Don’t be afraid to express yourself, and don’t worry about what others think.
It’s your life, not anyone else’s, so live it your way.

Even though we went to a school where there were both boys and girls, our minds were programmed to believe that boys are cheap, ugly, unsanitary, and so on.

Let us not judge them based on their appearance, nor should we judge them for any other reason.
All that is required is that they be nice to others.

  • We must recognise and reward their efforts. Though crime is on the rise, painting a negative image of boys, not all of them are the same. It is only necessary to recognise the good ones.

    • Make an effort to understand them.

  • He could be your father, brother, son, husband, grandfather, uncle, or even a servant, driver, or gatekeeper.
    Recognize their efforts and sympathise with their emotions.

I do not know what I may appear to the world, but to myself I seem to have been only like a boy playing on the seashore, and diverting myself in now and then finding a smoother pebble or a prettier shell than ordinary, whilst the great ocean of truth lay all undiscovered before me.

~ Isaac newton

People think that I must be a very strange person. This is not correct. I have the heart of a small boy. It is in a glass jar on my desk.

Stephen King

Life of a boy – Secrets are being untold (part – 1)

It’s a story of a boy, a boy who never speaks up, a boy who never takes the time to share what’s on his mind, a boy who is fearful, sad, experiencing an emotional breakdown, and so on.

Despite the difficulties boys face in their lives, they always fight for every situation mode to come back from no matter what the circumstances are; no matter if they are going through trauma in their lives, no matter if they are losing some battles.

There is no answer to how a boy becomes stubborn, whether it is society's pressure or the boy is born with this quality. The answer may lie in how the boy was raised, the close people in his life, or the family and friends he used to spend time with.

On one hand, we ask them to lift heavy bags on the other, we ask them to do household work as if their duty were to do it all. We treat them too harshly because they are born with more power, but their hearts are also as big as their muscles.

The heart that is common to all men beats in the same way, so why do you think boys are ruthless? The way we treat them creates their spirit, and the way we understand them makes them comfortable and happy.